Friday, August 12, 2011

Is this the reaction I should have given when he apologized to me?????

Theres this guy I was seeing in early January, I met him in a club and slept with him the next day :( which I regretted, he took me out for a meal the next day and we'd got to know each other a bit more, then I slept with him. We kept seeing each other after that and going out together, we went clubbing and to the cinema. Then after a month he was telling me you are nice, funny, sweet etc its a pleasure being with you. Then all of a sudden he told me he didn't want to see me again (he'd found another girl, I saw it on his facebook and he was in a relationship with her) this is a week or so after he ditched me, they started dating. Then in April (3 months later) he messaged me on facebook saying sorry for what I did, I regret it, I was stupid.. the other girl did me worse. The reply I gave to him was one of anger, I said I couldn't believe he'd ditched me and hurt me, and that I'd really liked him etc. I told him when we were out together that he was sometimes dancing with other girls, and maybe she saw that too and didn't like it. He replied one last time saying I was completely different with her, I respected her more than any other girl (e.g me). I told my friend earlier about it earlier, and she said at the time I should have said its fine, whatever when he replied, and then he would have maybe wanted more... I did like him still at the time, I was angry.. was the apology from him a suggestion that he wanted more, or was it just to get rid of his guilt? since then hes never bothered to speak to me or reply when I've contacted him.

Friend charging me rent from the blue?

If it was agreed as you say, that you were not responsible for rent, then technically, you owe him nothing. It is wrong for him to first tell you that, only to spring a bill on you after the fact. It would be gracious of you to offer some assistance, but since you were not expecting to have to pay, you might have planned your finances with that in mind. Also, anyone who pays rent has a say in how the household gets run, like inviting whoever you want, coming and going as you please, Were you given the same rights as an official tenant? Anyway, he was wrong and its good of you to pay it just to save the friendship. Lesson learned: Come to a specific agreement in advance or get your own place.

Dating is irrational, so why do teenagers do it?

Not everyone wants to date. There is nothing abnormal about being interested in science and building stuff. Especially since boys actually mature more slowly sexually than girls, and it appears that your mom is out of line here, if that is all that is going on, or if she is creating incidents herself. However, she has the upper hand, and my advice, with all due respect, sincerely though I am totally with you insofar as what you have said is: Cooperate with the therapy idea. Eventually you will win as you are the younger and "Youth will be served".

How can I express mode (the most common item of a set) mathematically?

I need to define (mathematically) the mode of a given set. There is no problem expressing it with words, but I don't find how to do it mathematically or using a formula.

If a guy hasn't texted in four days?

Recently, my friend tried to "set me up" w/ this guy who lives two hours away from me. I got to know him through text and i met him once and he was really shy i could barley get anything out of him he latered apologized for being so shy. Anyway, him and i text every now and then we use to text each other every day and now its becoming less and less. Should the female be the first to start conversation or should the male during texting? He seems sweet but i don't know if anything will really come between us. Could he possibly be uninterested? He doesn't have a job, he doesn't volunteer and i know he doesn't have a car, he does hang out w/ his friends alot though. During our last text he said that he wanted to see me on the fourth of july and i said that i wasn't sure what my plans were but i haven't heard from him since and this was four days ago should i text him? By the way i am a 19 yr old female and he is a 22 yr old male. Any ideas? Thanks!

My girlfriend cheated on me with her Ex did I make the right decision?

he shouldnt have anything to say to u. he shouldnt have done that and neither should she have. most girls and guys... once cheaters will most likely cheat again.. i would keep it as u guys stay friends. u let her have that freedom and she did that anyway. u will never have the same trust for her and that will always be a problem in your relationship, expecially if she does plan on still bing friends with him. she had no reason to do it and there is no reason to get back together. and i wouldnt wanna c him. he knew about u and her and he shouldve accepted that and known that that wouldnt be ok.

Dating is irrational, so why do teenagers do it?

Drastically different. Through dating, you're not only getting to know the person you're courting, but yourself through having a relationship. Each is to their own, but dating is part of growing up.