Help with this shy girl lots of info please help :/?

Refering back to your comment of "to shy to hang out 1 on 1" if thats the case you should see if she's willing to hang out with you and some of her friends. Ivv dated a few shy women in my day and you just gotta hang in there they might live a very sheltered life and all its going to take is time for them to adjust . Or just talk to her about it that is probably the best thing you can do.